As
we reflect on our successes and missteps of the season just ending we are
undoubtedly like many of our swimmers. We are wondering about missed
opportunities and marveling at transformations. This takes place both team wide
and individually.
We
are reminded while watching the Futures meet at Stanford that humans (and
groups of humans – teams) are constantly in motion travelling toward that upon
which they are focusing.
You
must choose between that which you want and that which you want to avoid. The former
will lead you to the promised land. The latter will lead you to the dark side.
The
old adage comes to mind; winners see what they want while losers see what they
want to avoid. Want to finish a race with power then focus on it. If you focus
on not dying in a swim you are most assuredly going to fade, sometimes
spectacularly so.
Teams
move in the same direction. Want a team full of positive, supportive and
trustworthy athletes? Then you must as a coach talk about that, recognize it
and call into question those who don’t “fit” your desired model.
Want
to be upbeat? Then go do it and dump negativity whenever and wherever you see
it. Hold yourself and those around you to the standard which emulates your
goal.
These
are all conscious choices we make daily as we move through the often whimsical
forces of life. When you evaluate your season be honest.
Choice
is powerful. You are responsible for who you are and who you will become.
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