There
are all sorts of “spots” up for grabs at this time of year. We can think of two
in particular that define the concept of “earning” your way moving forward. The
first is application and acceptance into a college of your choice. The second
is application and acceptance into the training group of your choice.
The
fall season is one of change. Summer has given us what it has in the pool.
Spring has given us what it has in terms of scholastic pursuits. Now the fall
is upon us and we are sorting out our options, our spots if you will.
And
in our mind this is where the concept of “earning it” comes into play.
If
you are a senior this fall you are most likely in the application process for
college. The colleges you are applying to want to know what you have done thus
far academically as well as extracurricular (swimming accomplishments). They
look at your transcripts and test scores and using those along with the
subjective references of letters from community leaders (and swim coaches) who
sing your praises determine if you are “worthy” of admission to their school.
It is a somewhat arrogant posture we think but nonetheless it is the process as
it stands today.
Let’s
say you have a 3.75 GPA and test scores to match. The college says you need to
have 4.0 and test scores to match. Therefore, you fall short and are not
admitted. You are disappointed but rally with the familiar cry, “But if you
give me a slot I’ll show you that I deserve it by raising my grades to the
standard you want”. They say, sorry but no go.
In
the pool let’s say you want to move into a group that is more demanding on the
training side. You have the same 3.75 swimming GPA and promise to bring it up
to the required 4.0 standard if you are given the chance. A program based upon
sound principles will not let that happen. The coach will say, “Show me by
earning the right to be in the next more demanding group.” If you are fortunate
the coach will have a set of requirements that outline the expectations so you
will know what is necessary to move.
Again,
you need to have the attitude that “I will earn my spot” and if I do then I
will get it. It doesn’t happen the other way around…”Give me the spot and I
will earn it”.
If
you get a job and they say be at the front door at 6:00AM ready to go and you
show up at 6:02 not quite ready then you will be asked to leave. Standards that
are clearly defined help each of us know what is expected and how to “Earn” a
spot.
It
is a fine life lesson…earning our way gives us complete control over our
future. Who would want it any other way?
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