When
you declare that you want something and then ask for support and guidance what
may seem impossible becomes believable and then a series of seemingly random
events get linked together and your goal becomes real. When that happens, you
achieve your goal. It is a simple yet powerful process. Folks who follow
quantum physics know all about this. We don’t claim to understand it very well
but we do believe that we alter and ultimately create our reality.
Elizabeth
was a 2:18 200 yard butterflyer in September. She trained reasonably well and
by December she swam 2:12. She was pleased with her drop. She then proceeded to
drop some more and in March narrowly missed getting her Orlando NSCA cut. She
swam 2:08. The cut was 2:06.
In
late March we asked her a question. We first told her that we believed she
could swim a 2:06. She nodded her head and said that so did she. We asked her
would she declare that she was all in? We said that if she did that we would
work with her to make that cut. We forewarned her that her declaration would
have consequences. We would hold her to a higher standard. She would need to
rearrange her priorities. She would need to make some sacrifices so that swim
training came before other things, except for school. We asked her to think
about it and let us know. Either way was fine by us but if she wanted the cut
we would be all in as well.
Nearly
two weeks later she came and announced she was in. We asked her to tell her
parents so they would know as well. It is important to have the whole support
team know about the goal and be all in as well. She said she would. Soon
thereafter we had a brief conversation with her Dad confirming her intentions.
We
all rolled up our sleeves and went to work. In May at the end of the high
school season she took a shot in both the 100 and 200. She missed the 100 by a
tenth and the 200 by slightly more. Undeterred – Elizabeth has a great
resilience about her – she went back to work.
In
May she swam the 200 meter fly in 2:27. Yesterday at the local Junior Olympic meet she swam 2:25 in prelims and a 2:22.7 in finals. She earned her cut to the
long course NCSA Junior National meet in 3 weeks. The 200 meter cut is 2:23.19.
Keep
in mind that as a 10 & under, an 11-12 and early in her 13-14 age groups
she was not a super involved racer. She didn’t compete at Far Westerns or even
the Junior Olympic meet. Today she is practically swimming 200 meter fly in the
same time as she swam 200 yard fly a year ago. Her best 100 yard fly a year or
so ago was 1:05. Sunday she swam a 1:05 for meters. (You college coaches out
there, Elizabeth is a junior this September.)
How
does this happen? She has not grown measurably physically. However, what she
has done since she declared her intention is to make 90+% of the available
workouts. Her dry land component has changed as well. And when a stress set is
given, she leans into it. When a technique set is given, she is working on her
body position, distance per stroke and tempo.
We
have had stress sets and technique sets every week since we began coaching – several
decades ago. Elizabeth has had the opportunity to move forward if she wanted to
– many months ago. She decided in March to act on her stated goals. That is
what made the difference. This business about improving and tapping your
potential isn’t terribly complicated.
After
her 2:22.7 we asked Elizabeth if she knew when she made her cut. She looked
like we for sure knew the answer, about 10 minutes ago. We reminded her that
she actually made her cut in late March. She smiled a smile of satisfaction.
She understands the link. She will be successful in her life, no matter her
direction or undertaking. Intention is powerful and she knows firsthand the
power.
Know
what you want. Declare it. Act on it. Just ask Elizabeth.
“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to
draw back-- Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one
elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid
plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves
too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have
occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's
favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance,
which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do,
or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.
Begin it now."
(Attributed
to Goethe)
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